This is a pebble in the road about the fear of change.
Specifically, the phobia about the fear of change.
It has a name. Metathesiophobia. It is much easier to say the
fear of change. That is the topic of this episode.
There is a lot of fear romping around these days. I think it
is important to know what you are dealing with but that is just me.
I can see that for a lot of people, getting back to "normal"
overrides anything else. They want and need that structure.
They want it the way it was. Even if there is sufficient
information to warrant a change, even temporary. Or permanent. And
that is ok, if it doesn't impact your or another persons
Not being political here. Let me give an example.
Ralph goes to work, then goes home. Does not go anywhere
on the weekends.
Does not like being alone so somebody has to be in the house
Does not take vacations and doesn't like it if the family
wants to go. So they don't go anywhere as a group.
Ralph knows this isn't right but he can't tolerate being
anywhere but work and home.
Ralph might have a phobia.
There are resources that might be of assistance to help
understand and how to deal with phobias. I share a few of them in
If you need support contact the National Suicide Prevention
Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255, the Trevor Project at 1-866-488-7386 or
text “START” to 741-741.
Faith G. Harper 2018 book Unf*ck Your Brain
: Using Science
to Get over Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Freak-Outs, and Triggers.
You can find the book in paper form or as an audio book at your
preferred book vendor.
Verywell Mind has an page on a list of phobias
and some of the things
a person can do about them.
The Anxiety Toolkit
by Alice Boyes, PhD You can read
from the book at
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